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Marathon in Aid of the David Lewis Centre - Can You Help? |
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Written by Simon Howard
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Sunday, 18 January 2009 |
 Aaron J. Ashforth I felt like I had been stabbed through the heart and wondered how on earth I could tell Beth my 10 year old daughter who was watching TV in the adjacent room? My thoughts also went out to my wife Maxine who was at home in Oldham with my other stepson Liam, aged 19. The next four hours were pure torture as I packed up and drove home. I decided not to tell Beth the tragic news until arriving home. To lose anyone is a tragedy but you just don’t expect to lose your children. Aaron had epilepsy and when he had seizures they were quite severe but you honestly never expected one to take his life. Until March 2009 we will not know the real reason when there is an inquest but we believe there is a chance he may have had a rare form of epilepsy called SUDEP (Sudden Death From Epilepsy ).
Aaron was the most fantastic individual you could wish to meet and he just brightened the lives of everyone he came into contact with. He was the life and soul of any party or social gathering as his Facebook profile bears testimony to. As with all your children we loved him very dearly, but until this tragedy never realised that so much of the world also loved him. He may have only been 21 years of age but he packed more into those 21 years than most people do in 60 or 70. His funeral was a fantastic occasion being a wonderful celebration of his life. The church was full with about 300 people. The music used was Hallelujah (Jeff Buckley), Only The Good Die Young (Queen), Hear You Me (Jimmy Eat World), November Rain (Guns n Roses), Knockin on Heavens Door (Guns n Roses) and Jerusalem. He was a keen snowboarder having visited places such as Val D’Isere, Val Thorens and Tignes. Since being little he had always wanted to go to Canada and this was his planned destination for October 2009 when he was going to live and work in Banff for 12 months. He had a great future in front of him and had everything to live for and I feel like I have been robbed of a wonderful part of my life.
 Aaron J. Ashforth Being a keen outdoors enthusiast myself I somehow want to remember Aaron for the person he was yet at the same time wondered what I could do to raise money for the epilepsy cause? Although I have already said we aren’t yet clear what killed Aaron, his medical history points to epilepsy causing his death. I am currently 38 years of age and feel I have a decent level of fitness for walking but as for running that’s another matter entirely. His snowboarding friends suggested we raised some money by running a half marathon round Silverstone racing track. This is a daunting process for me as I know I could walk the distance but it is far tougher to get a level of fitness to run it. We are raising funds for The David Lewis Centre in Alderley Edge in Cheshire. The David Lewis Centre is the largest UK provider of a range of medical, educational, residential and assessment services for people with complex epilepsy and other neurological conditions, including learning disability and challenging behaviour.
Throughout the tragedy I have had to cope with since the end of October 2008, I have been overwhelmed by the support I have received from members of the OFC. This group is a credit to all of the members. I have been supported by emails, texts, phone calls and also people who have walked with me since the tragedy as I try to reassemble my life. We are all lucky to have such a group of friends that we know are there when we need. The OFC has proved to me over the last few months, not just to be a group of walkers but a circle of close friends. I knew this before through the way the club supported Lorraine Barks but experiencing it myself enhanced this opinion. I know the current climate is one of financial difficulty but I would really appreciate if people have a pound or two to spare to consider sponsoring me for my half marathon. The easiest method is to use the Just Giving link below. May I pass on my appreciation to all my OFC friends for the support they have given and thank you all in anticipation of any sponsorship you may give me:-
GIVE YOUR SUPPORT TO SIMON HOWARD |
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